“Go after her. Fuck, don’t sit there and wait for her to call, go after her because that’s what you should do if you love someone, don’t wait for them to give you a sign cause it might never come, don’t let people happen to you, don’t let me happen to you, or her, she’s not a fucking television show or tornado. There are people I might have loved had they gotten on the airplane or run down the street after me or called me up drunk at four in the morning because they need to tell me right now and because they cannot regret this and I always thought I’d be the only one doing crazy things for people who would never give enough of a fuck to do it back or to act like idiots or be entirely vulnerable and honest and making someone fall in love with you is easy and flying 3000 miles on four days notice because you can’t just sit there and do nothing and breathe into telephones is not everyone’s idea of love but it is the way I can recognize it because that is what I do. Go scream it and be with her in meaningful ways because that is beautiful and that is generous and that is what loving someone is, that is raw and that is unguarded, and that is all that is worth anything, really.”—Harvey Milk
Hey! Will you be happen to stock any 2014 Calendars in your store!? :) Btw, loooooooove your work! :)
Honestly I was in talks to have a calendar done but due to time constraints (I was approached to do one 2 months B4 the new year) looks like we may have to push it back to a 2015 calendar. BUT there will be posters! Maybe I’ll make posters with calendars attached to them :D
So to feel better about being treated as a second class citizen you make up for it by tying guys up, calling them your slaves and puppies, whipping, whatever else the hell you do?
HA! And yet again, you hide your face!
I see your ignorance know no bounds nor do you know how to read….why are you so afraid of Me? I mean….I know why ^.^ *insert scoff* BUT what are you jeopardizing? I can safely assume you must know Me irl….anyways….
you speak so hard on something you have no clue about. you’re coming at Me with the education level of “50 Shades of Grey.” FemDom & BDSM are not necessarily synonymous. FemDom in it’s most basic form just means “Female-Led Relationship.” Now you reference “whipping and typing up guys” as Me making up for the the injustices that my gender endures in the context of FemDom….when in my previous reply I was referencing FD in it’s basic form. Accusing Me of my BDSM practices as a source of taking out my anger is accusing Me of inflicting abuse. When before “play” occurs there is a conversation between two CON-SENT-ING ADULTS about boundaries, type of play and safewords. Ooooo is this news to you?
THAT’S the misconception shared among the mainstream and that is the mentality of someone who supports the patriarchy. An example, when it comes to rape culture the patriarchy’s response is “What did she expect dressed like that” or “She shouldn’t have had that many drinks” or “What did she think was going to happen in a room full of guys.” This way of thinking “justifies”the gross violation of women as a form of punishment. That’s why you think when I “whip a male” it must be because I’m punishing him rather than us having a mutual play scene. Whenever there is a form of “punishment” in the FD context it isn’t a surprise because again, we do this crazy thing called Open & Honest two way conversation between two consenting adults. “SAFE, SANE and CONSENSUAL.” is the GOLDEN RULE within our community. But I bet you didn’t know that either.
To limit a lifestyle that is so complex is insulting. My “slaves” and “puppies” are FEMALE SUPREMACISTS THEMSELVES…again, I bet you didn’t know that. Soooo calling them my slaves and puppies is considered an HONOR to them. They are overjoyed to serve and worship Women. This idea should be standard but instead it’s seen as a fetish. So I’m not punishing them for their ill raised brethren nor am I making up for anything. IT IS A MUTUAL CONSENSUS. These males admire their Mistress, Princess, Lady, Goddess, Queen or however She wishes to be called. He wants to make Her happy. Sometimes that’s cleaning up the house as she’s relaxing, sometimes that’s taking a “caning” sometimes that’s rubbing her feet for 2 hours, filling her room with Roses or wearing a collar underneath his Vanilla clothing because he is devoted to Her. It is very much a cerebral lifestyle with many interpretations and styles. But that’s not to say that sometimes it’s just fun to engage in play for no “deep” reason. It doesn’t necessarily have to be serious. But the point is, it’s a lot more complex then you assume it is. How fuck-ing dare you belittle something you don’t know SHIT about.
I pointed out the injustice that Women face daily not to justify my type of “play” but to point out WHAT. REALLY. IS. GROSS.
Am I a Sadist? Yes. But when I say “puppy” I mean it as an endearing term. How is it any different than when a guy calls his girlfriend kitten? or sweetheart? Or that for that matter, the disgusting vanilla term “Wifey” which means a Woman is deemed qualified for marriage only if she knows how to cook and clean. I’m NOT about that life. Depending on the context, all of these nicknames can be misconstrued as condescending. That’s simply the way I like to “play.” I use the term “slaves” in general but you have to earn the place to be my “puppy.” Also I like “Puppy Play” it’s a fetish of mine…so what else would I call them genius?
D/S (FemDom) relationships are complex and beautiful because truth and trust are the core of these relationships. The physical aspects of “play” is surface. It’s not about the pain, it’s about devotion and its about trusting his/her Owner…..How many people do you trust that way? Probably no one. So don’t you DARE talk about my fucking pets as if you are even remotely worthy to do so.
Again, speaking on something you don’t know shit about just further reveals your ignorance which in turn elevates how stupid you already look. Quite frankly, “Me thinks you protest too much.”
Note* The sentiments I have expressed are of my own & does not necessarily reflect the feelings of all members of the community. How we define this lifestyle may be different but always with the general consensus of “Safe, Sane and Consensual.”
When you look at me a certain way…you know what I’m talking about. Your smile is radiant. You’ve got that twinkle in your eyes, just a shade darker than usual. You’re completely still, save for the rise and fall of your chest. There’s a buzz in the air between us and I let out a breath I didn’t even know I was holding. It’s a million details all in one moment.
I know that look. And I love it because it means I’m in trouble…in the best possible way.
Hahahaha do you feel validated? Did this…make you feel big? Hahahaha Did you think you’d get a rise out of Me? you don’t even exist to Me. Now you don’t have to agree with my lifestyle but don’t ever…ever…think that you’re that important to voice your unsolicited ignorant opinion.
But I will show you the extent of my kindness and ruin you.
What’s funny to Me, is that you actually just participated in being my bitch. AKA FemDom.
How you say?
Remember you SUB-MIT-TED to Me. Because if you thought your words held any weight, I’d know your avatar and your tumblr handle but I don’t because you are aware of your inferiority.
FemDom gross…you think relationships where the Woman and her needs are top priority..gross? A Woman who exudes confidence and wields her power however she wishes, gross? Gross is how a majority of society condition women to put the “needs” of a male before hers, where we make up more than 50% of the population but yet are treated as second class citizens. That’s gross and I reject this reality.
…Still I don’t know who the fuck you are. But Me. Oh…you know who I AM. I AM the reason you HIDE behind a computer screen. ME. Remember that. I just exist and you’re scared to show yourself to ME. you know my skills in rhetoric and how I will TEAR you apart with just words and do it oh so eloquently…but alas…I feel for you. How pathetic to live a life to never know such power. To only dream of it and scorn others who so admentatly hold it.
hello! this might be a weird question and it's completely okay if you don't feel comfortable answering, could you recommend a basic black bra that's good for giving a lot of cleavage like in your morrigan cosplay? i ask because i've been searching for one but i haven't had any luck finding one like that haha
Not a weird question at all! Actually I use shapewear with a lot of my costumes. Because they lock and load everything. Also it’s a bitch to find intimates that fit me but shapewear usually consists of latex, spandex or other elastic based fabrics so they mold to my shape.
Since I’m busty but small in the waist, I find Shapewear gives me the support I need for the girls and fits snuggly around my waist without having to tailor it! Also I hate bras with underwire X-| I only wear them for photoshoots or when I know they’re coming off soon! Ha! ;D I buy bras & girdles that give support without the wire!